Best Bridal Shower Tips And Ideas

Are you going to be planning a bridal shower in the near future, but do not have any idea where to start? Do not worry because many brides have found themselves in the same situation and they got through it just fine. However, they did not have access to the information that you are going to see below. Planning a bridal shower can be a lot of work and involves a lot of planning. As long as you plan ahead of time and know what steps to take first everything will work out in the end.

Hosting the Shower

A bridal shower is a very important part of the wedding process, because it gives all your guests a chance to get better acquainted. It also allows you and your significant other to acquire some gifts that will assist you in starting your new life together. The first thing that has to be decided on is who is going to host the shower. It is completely appropriate for you to host your own shower. It is also acceptable for your mother or your aunt to do all the heavy lifting on this.When it comes down to it the decision is yours.

You also have the option of having more than one shower, if you want. Perhaps, your mother could host a bridal shower for your close friends and family members, whereas, one of your co-workers could throw you an office bridal shower on a different date. There is nothing wrong with having more than one shower. Just think about how many extra gifts you will be receive.

It will take quite a bit of planning and research to make this bridal shower possible, so whoever plans on doing the hosting needs to start planning at least three months in advance. This should give you a long enough time frame to get every aspect of the shower in order.


Choosing the location to host a bridal shower can be one of most exciting parts of this whole process. With that being said, you should know that the location you choose could make all the different in the world, but you do not want the location you choose to clash with the theme of the event. There are many acceptable locations for you to host a bridal shower. You could host the bridal shower in your own home, backyard, on a beach, in a restaurant, a fancy hotel, or you could have a nice picnic. Another great idea is for you to host your shower on a yacht. There really are a limitless amount of possibilities for the location. When it comes down to it the decision is yours, but you just want to make sure that you choose a location that fits in with the theme of the event.

Date of the Shower

If you want to stick to the tradition, then the bridal shower should take place a month before the wedding. However, this just might not fit your needs and that is perfectly acceptable. After all you want to make sure that all of your friends and family are able to attend the event. The date may be one of the hardest things to decide. You are going to have to speak with your guests many times and find out what dates suit them. It never hurts to have a backup date just in case someone is not available on your first date choice.

The Guest List

Typically a bridal shower usually only consists of female friends and family members. However, this does not always have to be the case. You can really invite whomever you want. The only important thing to remember is that whomever you invite to the bridal shower should also be invited to the wedding. So before you even think about your guest list for your bridal shower, you have to consider the guest list for your wedding first.


As time has passed bridal shower invitations have evolved quite a bit. It has become a more common practice to send out E-vites. E-vites will allow your guests to RSVP, make comments, and ask the host questions about the event. However, this does not mean that you can’t stick to the traditional method of going through postal delivery.
When creating invitations many people get caught up on the design of the cards. While the design is very important, it is even more important to make sure that you have listed the correct information on the invite. You want to make sure that you have included the date of the shower, where it is going to be taking place, and what the theme of the shower. Another important piece of information to include on the invite is your bridal registry. This will allow your guests to know what items you are requesting. Remember to choose items that are going to help you start your new life together as a couple.

You never want to force your guests to rush. After all they are going to be attending your party and showering you with gifts. One great way to do this is by sending the invitations at least a month in advance. This will be enough time for all of your guests to make travel arrangements. If you have guests that will be traveling from out of town, it might even be a good thought to send the invitations two months in advance.

Make your invitations fun and make sure that they match the theme of the event. The invitations are like a preview of the celebrations that are going to take place.

Shower Menu

Once again the menu of the event really depends on what you want. Of course, if you are hosting the shower in a restaurant, this is something that you will not have to worry about. It does not matter what type of event you are planning on hosting, but it is always a great idea to have something to snack on.
You can always include cupcakes, since these are always a huge hit at any bridal shower. You can even choose to have a wine and cheese event, as well. There are a lot of possibilities, but in the end it will really be what you prefer.

Keeping It Simple

If you do plan on having a themed event, you want to make sure that you keep it simple. You do not want the bridal shower to outdo the wedding. Also, by keeping things simple, you are going to save yourself a little money that can be spent elsewhere.


As you can see there are a lot of things to take into consideration, when planning a bridal shower. Make sure you plan early, send the invites out early, and just stick to the tips and information above and you should be just fine. Also remember that choosing a theme can be a very important part of this event, because everything else is going to revolve around the theme of the wedding.